The Power of A Single Welcoming Word
My oldest brother, Rick Cunningham, received a letter in the mail the other day. It was from a friend who had once been a member of the church where Rick had served as minister. This lady was now a member of a church in another Texas town, several hundred miles away. In the letter she wrote this:
“Yesterday, our minister, John Knox, was telling about his baptism at Sunset in Lubbock, TX when he was 20 years old. He was a student at Lubbock Christian University after flunking out of Texas Tech. He had never darkened the door of a church building until he met his LCU friends. At some time in there, he had a girlfriend who was also a student at LCU, who lead him to Christ. Anyway, when he was baptized, he came up out of the water, up the stairs to re-dress, and he was met by an older man with a towel who simply said ‘Welcome.’ John went on to say how much that one word meant to him then, and how it stayed with him through the years. He said he had kept it in his heart to this very day. He related instances of seeing this man, many times over the years, whenever he visited someone in a Lubbock Hospital… there this man was visiting people nearly every time. John said that, because he had so many connections in Lubbock, he always checked the Lubbock obituaries. There, he said, in last week’s obituary, was the name Joe Cunningham, the man who was first to welcome him into the Kingdom, and whose welcome had touched his heart for all these years.”
Of course, this kind of witness to my dad’s life does not surprise my brothers or me. This is the kind of man Pop was. But I wanted to relay this story here to simply remind us of the power of a single word when it is uttered by someone whose heart is filled with love and welcome. We never know how un-welcome people feel around us, so when they are confronted by someone who is genuine in their welcome, it can have a powerful and lasting impact. Pop likely never knew this story even though he was the central character. And you may never know how your words of welcome impact someone else…. But that person knows. And it may have a lasting impact on how they feel about life. And, after all, isn’t this exactly how we think Jesus welcomes us into His Kingdom? “Well done, good and faithful servant…. Come on into the joy of your Master.”