The Nature of our Church Family Part 2 Church Attendance? Family Life! Perhaps you grew up in a congregation where "church attendance" was hammered home every week. Hebrews 10:25 was the verse most often quoted at services, "Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another-and all the more as you see the Day approaching." In fact, faithfulness to God was often equated with how many times you attended church services-"He was there every time the doors were opened!" Spirituality is about more than "church attendance." You can be at every service of the church and still be a "hypocritical heathen" (I know it's an oxymoron). Legalistic obedience to man-made rules doesn't lead us to Christ-likeness. However, regular church attendance does indicate a healthy understanding of the role and power of "fellowship" in the life of the Christian-Let us not give up meeting together ... but let us encourage one another. Often, the first sign of spiritual lethargy is inconsistent attendance at worship services and other activities of the church. It was a warning sign in the lives of the Hebrew Christians of the first century and it still warns of potential danger ahead in the 21st century. Created for Community God created man to enjoy community-not live in isolation. Even before the fall, before the damaging effects of sin, God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him" (Gen. 2:18). Isolation was the only thing in creation that was NOT good. It's still not! The Bible knows nothing of Christians without a church, believers detached from the body, or a faith without a fellowship. We were created for community-to be a part of God's family. God wants to be our Father; Jesus, our elderly brother; and Christians, our brothers and sisters in Christ. Jesus told the disciples, "But you are not to be called `Rabbi,' for you have only one Master and you are all brothers" (Mt. 23:8). In fact, how we relate to one another is a sign of our relationship to Jesus, "By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another" (Jn. 13:35). What about "those hypocrites?" Many people shun church membership out of a misunderstanding about the make-up of the church. "The church is full of hypocrites!" is the common complaint. While there are hypocrites in the church (you'll always have some hypocrites in any organization), the church is actually filled with "recovering sinners." Christians are simply sinners who are attempting to change their lives into the likeness of Jesus Christ. And every church has members who are at various stages of reaching that goal. What makes the church so essential is that the church is the spiritual classroom in which we learn to love and live with those fellow strugglers in life. As "recovering sinners," God calls us to learn how to love and live with other imperfect, immature, struggling people. God never said that church would be easy. In fact, some Christians are so difficult to get along with that Jesus had to give a new commandment to guide his spiritual family, "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another" (Jn. 13:34). If Jesus could love me enough to die on the cross for my sins, surely I can love my brothers and sisters in Christ despite their weaknesses and sin. Peter, knowing the faults and weaknesses of his own life, wrote, "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins" (1 Pet. 4:8). Accountability Because all of us of capable of returning to the world (2 Pet. 2:20-22), God gave us the church to hold us accountable-to help us keep on track. "It's none of your business!" is not a Christian phrase. We are commanded to get involved and watch out for one another. James tells us, "If you know people who have wandered off from God's truth, don't write them off. Go after them. Get them back" (James 5:19; from The Message). Questions 1. Are you part of God's family? 2. How serious are you about "church attendance"? Are you "in the bleachers" or "in the game"? 3. How close are you to your family? As a physical family comparison, would you be described as "close knit" or a "distant relative?" Leslie S. Chapman