MARY, MIRACLES AND A COUSIN But the angel said to her, "Do not be afraid, Mary, you have found favor with God. You will be with child and give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever; his kingdom will never end." "How will this be," Mary asked the angel, "since I am a virgin?" The angel answered, "The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called the Son of God. Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be barren is in her sixth month. For nothing is impossible with God." (Lk. 1:30-37). "I'm pregnant." These words bring worry and distress to the ears of parents when spoken by their teenage daughter, especially when she's not married. Mary must have wondered how she would break the news to her parents, friends, and, especially, her fiancé Joseph. "God did it!" would not be well received and might possibly bring charges of blasphemy. Alienation would have been the common practice in first century Galilee, accompanied by a lifetime of tainted reputation with frequent whispers and giggles. Knowing the stress Mary would be under, Gabriel provides for Mary a sympathetic ear—her cousin Elizabeth. While there were likely years of difference between their ages (Mary was likely a teenager and Elizabeth may have been in her forties), the miraculous circumstances surrounding both conceptions would melt away the years of differences. What a relief those words must have been to Mary, "Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be barren is in her sixth month." Now she had someone with whom she could confide and someone who would confirm that an angel named Gabriel existed and that miraculous births were still possible. Or, as the angel had said, "For nothing is impossible with God." It shouldn't surprise us that Mary began immediately making arrangements for a quick visit to Judea to see her cousin. Several weeks with Elizabeth, and her cousin's words of comfort and strength, would provide Mary with the strength to return to Nazareth to face her friends and relatives with her amazing story. Have you ever struggled with a personal problem that threatened to drown you with depression and despair? Have you ever wondered—"Will I ever survive this?" Just like Mary, God provides us with comforting relatives who can strengthen us to deal with life's crises. Paul spoke of the comfort in the first chapter of 2 Corinthians, "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God" (2 Cor. 1:3-4). When you're at the end of the rope, pick up the phone and call a brother or sister in Christ. The next time you need to talk, grab that friend at church and say, "Can we talk?" Let a fellow believer share your struggle that you might share in their strength. It worked for Mary; it'll work for you. See you next week!